Ok, we’re taking a new approach. Now you all get to do some Scripture searching and some faith-defending. I’ll give you some real challenges by real people against Christianity. Christians apologize!!! (make a defense, not say “I’m sorry”)
This is from a writer who has a whole website devoted to discrediting Christianity and telling “deconversion” stories. He is a self-described “former” Christian. This man is challenging your faith; defend it! Write exactly what you would say to him.
“A disturbed relationship
This is the most dislocated aspect about Christianity – its similarity to an abusive relationship. Some apologists expend enormous amounts of energy attempting to convince others (and themselves) that the God of their bible who orders baby massacre (1 Samuel 15:2-3) and pronounces on damnation (Mark 16:16) is a divine, loving and just being. “My husband hits me because I deserve it, he only does it because he loves me and my behaviour is so poor. He does so much for me – I owe him everything and would be nothing without his care.” He is perceived as having complete power whilst demonstrating both kindness and cruelty. But it can’t really be cruel – where would I go! We must deserve it. And so God stood by during the holocaust because of a “higher purpose.” It just has to be so!
Then it gets even more disturbing. The beloved husband starts beating the children. The wife of the abuser then shouts at the “disrespectful” children when they dare to tell her what Daddy is doing to them. Bad non-Christians, it’s your fault – you deserve to be tortured. It is too horrible for the dependant wife of an abuser to confront the fact of his abusive nature. Eventually though, many do see through and walk away to more healthy relationships. What exactly can a Christian know that the god they believe in has done to deserve their love when the evidence from the bible, human atrocities and terrible natural disasters of the world speak so loudly against a benevolent deity? Just what should an abusive husband do to his wife before she stops loving him, and what worldly negligence or biblical cruelty would the Christian God have to commit before it became obvious that Christianity is a set of confused beliefs constructed by humans and built on a foundation of a very primitive war like god?” http://www.users.globalnet.co.uk/~slocks/conundrums.html